Insights and guidance for caregivers

By Susie Benzaquen
"The mitzvah itself had not changed, but I had to. "

By Susie Benzaquen
"Embedded within kibbud av v’em is the recognition that our existence itself is not self-created."

By Susie Benzaquen
"“Grieving a parent’s decline is a silent heartbreak, felt in small moments: a missed word, a stumble, or a forgotten memory.”"

By Susie Benzaquen
"It is worth asking ourselves: is this truly guilt—or could it be something else?"

By Susie Benzaquen
"Caring for aging parents is rarely static; circumstances shift, needs change, and families must constantly adjust."

By Susie Benzaquen
"Therapeutic touch has the ability to calm the body, release tension, and create a sense of safety and balance. "

By Susie Benzaquen
"just because I would have done things differently does not mean the outcome would have been any better."

By Susie Benzaquen
"And week after week, I felt torn. Was I failing as a wife? Or as a daughter? Each bowl of soup carried love. Each absent platter of fish carried quiet guilt."
February 22, 2026

By Susie Benzaquen
"Looking back now, I don't think finding those essays was a coincidence. Then again, I've come to believe that very little in life is."

By Susie Benzaquen
"As a community, we pride ourselves on our commitment to chesed."

By Susie Benzaquen
"As I poured out my concerns, my Rav listened patiently. Then he gently helped me see the question differently."

By Susie Benzaquen
"It isn't always easy to be confronted with the reality that the person you married had a life before you. "

By Susie Benzaquen
"A tomato doesn't wonder why it isn't a cucumber"